Friday, June 6, 2008

Change Vs Transformation

It is a globally accepted gyan that change is inevitable. Change is the only permanent thing... Blah Blah Blah...
Yeah may be to those people who want to be jack of all arts. I skeptically elude them from my thought and sincerely advise them to close this page. My thoughts represent those who aim at mastery.

Of course, you can change your costume every day, Your toothbrush every month, Your under wears once in two months, Your bike or car once a year. These lifeless things are supposed to change . Are we only as good as these things.
Don't you think that it is more to us than these things? Let us take it that we change ourselves for something or someone today and tomorrow that something or someone is no more a part of our life. Will we continue with that change?Definitely no. We will again change.

You will change so much that one day you will lose the elasticity and live no more and there on you will just exist.If you are so vulnerable to change, probably one day your girfriend may change you for some one else.

If you keep changing to please or convince others you will one day break.
So what do you do? How do you resist change? Transform. Transformation is permanent.

Let every thing around you change while you transform. When you transform, you will be accepted as you are. No questions asked.
None will have the guts or thought of expecting a change from you. Transformation is possible only when you talk to your self.

It is like how you draft a article and re-examine carefully numerous times before you
publish it. Your article will be published only when it is good. Such is transformation. Transformation is a process of refinement of one self.


Change is temporary. I prefer transformation to change. I wish to transform myself into a better human being. I don't think change would do good in the long run.The entirity of the transformation depends upon the need, sustainability and above all your undeterred will with an uncompromising integrity.

My Dad always says " Every man is right in his own thoughts, deeds and actions. No one practices or believes anything with out a valid reason. The Problem arises when a man wants his idea to be followed by all around him and thinks only what he does is right and rest all are folly".

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

good article..Yes everyday u learn something or the other..specially from the people who are very close to ur heart...otherwise u tend to ignore others suggestions.. As usual it happens with everyone..

Keep learning..

Anonymous said...

Excellent Article..... We all get to learn a lot everyday .. and its a great feeling to know how parents learn so many things from their dear and little one...Learning has no END :) Simply Nice and Glad to read your article .. Cheers Deepak :))

Ananya said...

Transforming myself for someone...I have tried that have been doing that for many years but slowly I decided these transformations are not bringing the result I want...So i stopped...Changes can be changed...transformations are forever...no more transformations for me...I like me as I am now!
Good post!