Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Fact Vs Truth

Fact to me might seem unreal to you. Fact is an incident conceived and recorded by the mind as the eyes see it. Fact changes depending upon the eyes of the beholder. On the contrary, Truth is an incident as it happens unaltered by human conceptions. The taming and training of the mind to see the truth beyond the fact makes a man intellectual.

For a wise man, the fact and the truth are the same. Assumptions are not the way of life for him. He analyses the incident with the eye of the hawk and attention to detail becomes his Mantra. They who give into facts and fail to push beyond the framework that their mind can weave are commoners who, over a period of time succumb to knotty nuances of the mind which is always busy altering the truth to feed their ego.

They who elude conceptions of the mind and settle for nothing but truth are but a few. Their presence will not make you feel pleasant. They arouse a fear around you and they shake the basic roots of your beliefs. They march forward undeterred. They chose the toughest methodology in life which is to be simple. They know to keep their mind still. They cease the doubter as they know that the only way to cease doubt is to cease the doubter. They don't wait for acknowledgement.

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

Womanhood

An old women asked her grandson " What good is a tree which does not give fruits?" and she remarked " Go for another one."
I am grieve stuck at Such discrimination from the same sex.

I ask all the men " What good is a man who only looks for fruits in a tree and does not enjoy its shade?"We always take it for granted and take women as fruit bearing trees while the joy of the shade is the prime objective. We overlook life and more often than not these delicate intricacies are washed off as trifles of meaningless ovations of the madding crowd.

What a woman is to man, the man cannot reciprocate. Yet our society is doomed to the extent of not realising the forbidden truth. A woman is always at the giving end and man the receiving end. How are we going to pay for the services even if I take your stand and call everything a business acumen? Men are not in par with women in comparison as we men, are comfortably numb when it comes to payback. I call us the Weaker sex who are a inferior race and can never accept truth as it is.

But again, we cannot blame the Men as such. Men have been dominant for decades and they are already transforming now to accept women as one among their equals. Now this new found freedom in women, often misunderstood and misused paves way to new problems. They sometimes can't handle this freedom and blow the trumpet that often is too hard for our ears. But It will take time for the women to mature and handle their freedom effectively and without hampering or affecting Men's.

It will take at least two generations for things to settle down.Men have to be patient and take the wrath of this new wave for they have enjoyed undue freedom and women have been too tolerant in the past. It is pay back time for men. This movement is essential to strike a balance in our social relationship. I am happy to say that I understand this trend and its effects and will see through this striking reality (Men have to be prepared for this jolt). Many a men, I am sure will deny this. But my mom agrees to this and so does my wife.

The more the uneasiness, the more the friction. The More the friction, the longer it takes for this commonness among us.

Now it us up to the women to think and act, and up to the men to facilitate a smooth transition.